Parents Should Never Say These Things to Their Children

A father or mother should NEVER say the following things to their children.

1. Why can’t you be like ____ [So-and-so]?

This is really stupid stuff to say to your children.

Can I give a simple answer to this…

Your child cannot be like _______[falan falan], because your child didn’t have the fortune to have such wonderful parents as that child have.

So you should make yourself believe that this was only possible if ____ were the parent of your child. So simple. Got It?

Trust the fact that your childern would be wishing the same for you that why you are his/her parent instead of ___. Every time you say this, keep in mind this fact as well.

 

2. “I don’t have time right now.”

Ok. Wait for a few years. They will return the favor. As you so so shall you reap. One day the children will be not spending a tiny amount of time on you. So please give them time, and make them your priority. Your job and business are only for the bright future and good education of your children. If you don't give them time you gave them nothing.

 

3. “I don’t think you can do it.”

This is the most discouraging satement. Before your child improves his/her capability, you must improve your thinking. Your child needs a super believer parent, only then your child can try their best.

 

4. “You’re such a disappointment.”

No. Not as big as you. They can be disappointed because of you. Because you are the root of this issue, and never tried to make it fix.

 

5. “Can’t you do anything right?”

Well, you see… they need better mentors! People can only learn from their mistakes. A single mistake of a child is not so wrong that you should use this discouraging nonsense.

  

6. Why B? Why not A? Why the marks are not good as others?

Please don't compare your children, especially in terms of marks in exams/tests. Instead, ask. have you done better this time than the previous exam.